Missed Opportunity.

Wednesday, October 28, 2015

In 2000 the United Nations, with the support of virtually every country, agreed upon 8 Millennium Development Goals to be achieved by 2015. These focused on poverty eradication, health, gender and income inequality and the like, primarily in the Developing Countries (essentially Africa, Asia and Latin America). Reasonable progress has been made in several of these areas although the UN acknowledges that progress has been uneven and that the world is still off-track on several, if not most, of the goals.

Leading up to 2015, the UN indicated that it would embark on another round of global goals. In September of this year, they announced agreement on 17 Sustainable Development Goals with targets to attain for each by 2030. These continue the focus on poverty eradication, inequalities, health, but now also encompass a number of goals related to the sustainability of the planet. These are noble aims and if progress continues, it should make the world a better place to live.

Yet when I read through these goals and supporting information, something is missing – the child and family. Goals 3 and 4 do refer to health and education in a very generic way, but that’s it. No mention of the word “child”. Besides disconcerting, it’s somewhat ironic in an effort that is supposed to be about the long-term future of our global society that there is no mention of the children who will be that future. And sadly, but consistent with other statements and actions of the United Nations in the last decade, there is no mention of the word “family”, which appropriately supported and encouraged, could go a long way toward meeting many of the 17 goals they outline.

Maybe in 2030, we can get the words “child” and “family” slipped in to the next round of goals. I don’t say this lightly. I think our field missed an opportunity in 2015.

Part of the Gift

Wednesday, October 7, 2015

I came across the following story in a book I’m part way through…..

“A missionary ministering in the South Sea Islands was teaching his people about Christmas. ‘The giving of gifts is a spontaneous act of celebration over an extremely joyous event. And that,’ he explained,’ is why many people give gifts to others at Christmas time. It is an act of celebration over the joyous occasion of the birth of Christ.’

Following this teaching, one of the young men wanted to give the missionary a gift for Christmas, but since it was a very poor island, presents were not readily available.

On Christmas morning, a knock came at the hut of the missionary. At the door, he found the young man, who then gave him an extremely rare and particularly beautiful seashell that was found only at the distant end of the island.

The missionary thanked the young man for giving him such a rare and beautiful gift from such a distance, to which the young man replied, ‘Long walk part of gift’.

What a beautiful sentiment. ‘Long walk part of gift.’”

I love this story. In a nutshell, it describes who we are and what we do at Gladney. Sure, we play a crucial role in providing a couple a beautiful gift at the end of the process, but the long walk we take with our families is a part of the gift.